BosanskiSeljak
Augur
Some more:Not necessarily following the criteria of "good", but here's a quick list where you HAVE to play as a female if anyone is interested. I don't count character creation where you can choose between male/female:
Black Book
Child of Light
Cops 2170: The Power of Law
Day Watch
GODS: Lands of Infinity
Heroine's Quest: The Herald of Ragnarok
Morning's Wrath
Seal of Evil
Thronebreaker: The Witcher Tales
Transistor
Horizon Zero Dawn
Kult: Heretic Kingdoms
Fortune Summoners: Secret of the Elemental Stone
Venetica
Zanzarahh: The Hidden Portal
It's safe to say, 99.9% of the good games have a male player character or choice of gender