YES!
Hi, I'm Roqua
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When I read a book I can tell if the writer has been a soldier or not
How? This sounds highly dubious; can you list specific distinguishing features?
I'll disregard the fact you are a child of limited experience in anything so everything sounds reasonable to you since you lack the necessary information to compare and contrast new information to the complete lack of it in your mind. Could a seaman not tell if he read a book that had sailing scenes if the author knew the craft or not? Being a real soldier (or marine, or whatever) where your main and only job is specifically to engage and kill the enemy, not a pogue or remf, you live in a culture you can easily tell if a writer has also lived in. I am actually pretty good at telling if a writer is a veteran or combat veteran, or a pogue blowing their own horn about shit they have no idea about but think they do. I am sometimes wrong between the combat vets and vets, but never about civilians or civilians in uniform.
You are asking me if I can tell something is authentic or not. You find the ability to tell something authentic or not dubious for some reason. When I was a young kid I couldn't tell either. Read "Night" or "All Quiet on the Western Front." I've never been a prisoner of a concentration camp and I've never been in the crazy trench warfare of WW1, but I find it hard to believe that someone even as young and lacking of life knowledge as you can read these works and not know it is authentic. And Remarque was only in WW1 as a combatant for a couple weeks. He didn't live it for years. But he had the feelings, had his truths, and lived the awful and that can't be invented or regurgitated into a new construct from someone who hasn't.
Just a note: Roqua claims he buy games from extra money he earns from filling online surveys.
I didn't mean it as "Hey let's dis whatever he has to say." But as just as that, a note.
Just a note. YES! was given a budget by his wife. During a time I was being very hard on her for the money she was wasting on alcohol, she was hard on me for money she said I was wasting in a worse way since games stopped me from interacting with my family. With a lot more complexity and depth to the fighting than I care to list. I gave her a huge opening because I spend a shit ton of money in DDO when they had a experience gem chest sale. I couldn't help myself and just kept buying more and more. I spent a ridiculous amount and it gave her the perfect opportunity to impose her tyranny.
During this time I am not ashamed to say if I wanted to go over budget I had to make a different source of money. The survey thing worked well. I've since given up trying to get her to slow down in drinking, and she has loosened up on me doing my shit as long as I don't go crazy again. I really fucked up and spend way, way more than I should have. I honestly can't wait for her to fuck up so I can have leverage.
Sadly, when you kids grow up and are unhappily married for a while and only the kids are keeping you together and you hate each other around the same amount as you love each other marriage becomes a game of leverage. Women are born and breed for the long game. Setting traps, pushing buttons, controlling arguments, winning. They are natural masters of the evil and devious. Soul sucking succubus. There is no winning. There is only the temporary reprieve of leverage. Bidding your time for a fuck up and pouncing.
Life as an adult is horrible and ugly and the only joy a spouse can give you is a big fuck up and the joy of making them pay for it. There is no winning. I lost as soon as the ring went on her finger. All you young fucking idiots thinking life will be grand and marriage will be bliss are in for a very, very rude awakening. This causes me lots of joy. Your future pain sustains me and feeds me and fills me with glee. You are all so wrong and stupid.